When you were young other people made many choices for you. No doubt there are people in your life even now who are eager to tell you what you should do.
Here's the rub. You have to live with the consequences of the choices you make and those you allow others to make for you.
Good choosing is the secret to living the life you want.
In the final analysis, you are the only one who can choose well for youand you can only choose well if you have great clarity about what's important.